"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Question Concerning Body Language

wearegoingtoeatyou

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I've read some conflicting information concerning what it means when a woman looks at you the way she does. Some say that if she holds your gaze, then it means she likes you. Some say that if she turns away, then it means she likes you. Some say they if she turns away, then it definitely means she doesn't like you. Ok, what the hell? Could someone help me out here?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok, I'm just asking because this girl keeps checking me out and whenever I catch her looking at me, she doesn't break eye contact or anything.
 

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Hmmm, well she did crack a smile once in passing and I'm definitely not getting an evil vibe from her. We've exchanged maybe a handful of words and she seems like a nice enough girl to me.
 

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We both work at the same place. I rarely actually see her though. I'm assuming she's in school as she's only ever at work a few days a week.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ORTIZ SANCHEZ

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i saw a girl look at me and turn then smile she was by herself.... i didint give it much taught bcuz shes out of my leage... wonder what should i have done?
 

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I'm generally pretty leery of using EC as a great tool of insight into whether a chick digs you (or not). Especially on first meeting/glance/etc. If she looks at you the first time you encounter her it could be any number of things. But the fact this girl has made eye contact with you multiple times sez something, either she is interested in you, you look like someone she knows, or she thinks you're a freak! :crackup: Play the odds, for it, chat her up. Got nothing to lose, that's the only way you'll find out what all this eye contact is about.
 
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