"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Question 'bout Letting Go

Sachiel

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I have a slight predicament. I need to know whether or not to move on from this one girl. Let's call her Mary for privacy'x sake. Back in Januzry, I switched from private to public school. I met this one girl, and we became fast friends. As you've heard many times before, I became infatuated with her. In the beginning, it was rocky, at best. In fact, my best friend's little sister, let's call her Sally (who is Mary's sister's best friend and infatuated with me, ironically) told me that Mary said to her one day she knew I “liked” her and wasn't interested. (I received confirmation of this from Bob, my best friend) However, she has been more responsive lately, and I even get playful slaps on the arm from Mary. Despite this, I talked to her earlier today and Mary left a cryptic message that basically said she doesn't care for me like that (or she was hinting at liking me, but I'd have to read it again). Also, in two days, she is leaving for Saudi Arabia (she lived there as a kid) for the month of June. If need be, it would be the perfect time to move on. If there are any questions or vagueness, please ask. Also. please excuse any typos, I had to type this on my Wii.

Sachiel - DJ In Training
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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penkitten

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next dude next!!
she told you she isnt interested and is going away for the summer.
next next next
let go...
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Let go, don't let go, whatever, your whole post reads like an episode of Guiding Light but whatever. "I like her but she might not like me but her sister likes me but I don't like her sister but her sister told me that her sister doesn't like me and my best friend told me that the sister I like doesn't like me back."

But aside from that, what's the deal with "There's a girl I like, let's call her Mary" type crap? This isn't the f*cking Witness Protection Program. If you say a girl's name is Jessica when her name is really Jessica, that only narrows it down to like the 18 million girls named Jessica, for f*cks sake.
 

DamHE

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well maybe her name is Ingrid or something and he's embarassed about that.

To be honest I would move on, pard'ner. :(
 

Sachiel

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Giovanni Casanova said:
But aside from that, what's the deal with "There's a girl I like, let's call her Mary" type crap? This isn't the f*cking Witness Protection Program. If you say a girl's name is Jessica when her name is really Jessica, that only narrows it down to like the 18 million girls named Jessica, for f*cks sake.

I see what you're trying to say but was ^this really necessary? It's really not necessary.

To tell you the truth, I'm kinda ready to move on. I just didn't want to ignore this. Thanks to all those who contributed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go getta

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no man! dont let her go!! she's the one!! what are you doing?

she's your soulmate!! why would you let her go?

follow her to Japan if you have to. just dont let her go, or you might never see her again!!
 

Potbelly

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Go getta said:
no man! dont let her go!! she's the one!! what are you doing?

she's your soulmate!! why would you let her go?

follow her to Japan if you have to. just dont let her go, or you might never see her again!!
Yo original poster, ignore this dum fvck.

move on...your life is #1
 

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Thanks for your advice! I'll come to you guys again when I need to.

-Sachiel, DJ In Training
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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lmao stalking someone around the world has no good effects.
In fact, stalking someone at all, even if your intentions are good is just plain creepy... Why follow someone secretly, just go the fvck up and talk to her.

It's alot faster and it works.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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