"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question: Are women always in the abundance mindset?

Genos

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I was thinking earlier, if men can develop an abundance mentality, can't women also do the same?

In fact, especially for the hottest women, wouldn't it be extremely easy to develop? They have men hitting on them all the time, they'll probably get constant reminders that they have options XD.

Wouldn't this also be the reason why they are able to move on more easily after a relationship ends? The question arises then, why do beautiful women have the tendency to get hung up on one guy if they know they could have anyone?

Any thoughts about this (or on abundance for women in general)?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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Is say don't worry about what the girl is doing. Treat her like an HB 2 and she will appear to be like all other girls. She's not that special.
 

Redwood

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The abundance mentality in women is correlated to how attracted the women is, how they view themselves, and whether or not they're crazy or not.

But since the word "hypergamy" gets tossed around alot, you would assume that they're always in that mindset, so I would say yes.
 
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