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Question about your bed

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If you bring a girl home and you have a twin bed, will she think it's really weird if you are 27? Do you advise me to get a bigger bed if I am thinking of eventually having a girl over to my place? What do you think of a guy with a twin bed?
 

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A twin is no big deal, really. I've brought women home to a single sized bed back in the day when I was tight on cash a few times and it didn't make a difference to her. If she's into you, she's into you.

But I will say after buying a queen I can never go back. A full isn't a steep upgrade at all. I'd at least go with that.
 

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i mean its not like beds are THAT fvcking expensive.

i dont know how you sleep on tiny beds. if you just use it to fvck its not a big deal, but no girl will sleep over on a tiny bed. its just uncomfortable.
 

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Originally posted by Egoist
i mean its not like beds are THAT fvcking expensive.

i dont know how you sleep on tiny beds. if you just use it to fvck its not a big deal, but no girl will sleep over on a tiny bed. its just uncomfortable.
A good bed can cost well over $1,000 which is what I spent for a CA King mattress and box spring set several years ago, but it has lasted a long time and was worth the cost.

And having a big bed like that is awesome.
 

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Well it depends on the room size, if you got a twin to fit in a small bedroom, fine. Most girls will not have a problem with this. However if you do have a large bedroom and you're sporting a twin, you'll probably be seen as slightly on the immature side as obviously you can afford to get a bigger bed since you do have the space. I'm in a room mate situation and I have a twin bed, girls don't seem to have a problem when I bang them. However, if I get into a Studio or a larger bedroom, I'm going full-size/queen.
 

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Originally posted by FunkyMillion
get a bigger bed atleast a queen size minimum...

Get a bigger bed atleast a quee r size minimum...
 

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I like having a larger bed because of the simple fact that there's more room if you're going to have an overnight guest. When you have a twin sleeping situations are often non mobile. The sex will be fine but unless you're kickin her out it's gonna be a long sweaty night after the deed's done.
 

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My room is only big enough to fit a single bed anything bigger would be stupid. I am going to move into a place by myself later this year so i will make sure i have a big room and i will get at least a double but probably a queen so if someone wants to come over and maybe stay the night there will room for her. :)
 

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I have a Queen size bed. Bigger the better. I go by the philsophy

In life your either in your bed or your shoes. Make both of them quality and comfortable.
 

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i have a king size, but utilise everything in your room when your f**kin a *****! dressin tables, computer desks, hell anything man. best place i find is on the floor with a few pillows thrown down for comfort. if you got the cash go for a footon thing. one of them sofa beds. not the most comfortable but convienant
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
A good bed can cost well over $1,000 which is what I spent for a CA King mattress and box spring set several years ago, but it has lasted a long time and was worth the cost.

And having a big bed like that is awesome.
a good bed can cost a $100,000 too, so what?

you can buy a great bed and a matress for a lot less than a 1000.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
I like having a larger bed because of the simple fact that there's more room if you're going to have an overnight guest. When you have a twin sleeping situations are often non mobile. The sex will be fine but unless you're kickin her out it's gonna be a long sweaty night after the deed's done.

exactly.
 
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