"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Question about your bed

CoolRunning

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If you bring a girl home and you have a twin bed, will she think it's really weird if you are 27? Do you advise me to get a bigger bed if I am thinking of eventually having a girl over to my place? What do you think of a guy with a twin bed?
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LJC

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A twin is no big deal, really. I've brought women home to a single sized bed back in the day when I was tight on cash a few times and it didn't make a difference to her. If she's into you, she's into you.

But I will say after buying a queen I can never go back. A full isn't a steep upgrade at all. I'd at least go with that.
 

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i mean its not like beds are THAT fvcking expensive.

i dont know how you sleep on tiny beds. if you just use it to fvck its not a big deal, but no girl will sleep over on a tiny bed. its just uncomfortable.
 

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Originally posted by Egoist
i mean its not like beds are THAT fvcking expensive.

i dont know how you sleep on tiny beds. if you just use it to fvck its not a big deal, but no girl will sleep over on a tiny bed. its just uncomfortable.
A good bed can cost well over $1,000 which is what I spent for a CA King mattress and box spring set several years ago, but it has lasted a long time and was worth the cost.

And having a big bed like that is awesome.
 

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well it depends on the room size, if you got a twin to fit in a small bedroom, fine. Most girls will not have a problem with this. However if you do have a large bedroom and you're sporting a twin, you'll probably be seen as slightly on the immature side as obviously you can afford to get a bigger bed since you do have the space. I'm in a room mate situation and I have a twin bed, girls don't seem to have a problem when I bang them. However, if I get into a Studio or a larger bedroom, I'm going full-size/queen.
 

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Originally posted by FunkyMillion
get a bigger bed atleast a queen size minimum...

Get a bigger bed atleast a quee r size minimum...
 

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I like having a larger bed because of the simple fact that there's more room if you're going to have an overnight guest. When you have a twin sleeping situations are often non mobile. The sex will be fine but unless you're kickin her out it's gonna be a long sweaty night after the deed's done.
 

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My room is only big enough to fit a single bed anything bigger would be stupid. I am going to move into a place by myself later this year so i will make sure i have a big room and i will get at least a double but probably a queen so if someone wants to come over and maybe stay the night there will room for her. :)
 

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I have a Queen size bed. Bigger the better. I go by the philsophy

In life your either in your bed or your shoes. Make both of them quality and comfortable.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i have a king size, but utilise everything in your room when your f**kin a *****! dressin tables, computer desks, hell anything man. best place i find is on the floor with a few pillows thrown down for comfort. if you got the cash go for a footon thing. one of them sofa beds. not the most comfortable but convienant
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
A good bed can cost well over $1,000 which is what I spent for a CA King mattress and box spring set several years ago, but it has lasted a long time and was worth the cost.

And having a big bed like that is awesome.
a good bed can cost a $100,000 too, so what?

you can buy a great bed and a matress for a lot less than a 1000.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
I like having a larger bed because of the simple fact that there's more room if you're going to have an overnight guest. When you have a twin sleeping situations are often non mobile. The sex will be fine but unless you're kickin her out it's gonna be a long sweaty night after the deed's done.

exactly.
 
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