Iv'e dated this one girl for a few years, and we are basically broken up but we still have the most intense sex when we get together, I know she dates other guys how should I deal with this because I like her and it doesn't feel good to know she is looking for someone else. What do you do?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
question about womens feelings
- Thread starter movistar
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Johnnie5
Don Juan
Re: Re: question about womens feelings
date several women
she might then realise you have more value , if not just enjoy the sex
totally agree
date several women
she might then realise you have more value , if not just enjoy the sex
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Your still emotionally attached to this girl, so your jealousy is natural. If she's dating others whilst rooting you, there's no chance of you ever 'being together' again. That's the harsh reality.
End the F buddy relationship. Other than the sex, all your getting out of it is emotional pain. It's hard, but in the long run it's much more painful with the path your on at the moment.
Get her off that pedastal you prolly have her on