Iv'e dated this one girl for a few years, and we are basically broken up but we still have the most intense sex when we get together, I know she dates other guys how should I deal with this because I like her and it doesn't feel good to know she is looking for someone else. What do you do?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
question about womens feelings
- Thread starter movistar
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Johnnie5
Don Juan
Re: Re: question about womens feelings
date several women
she might then realise you have more value , if not just enjoy the sex
totally agree
date several women
she might then realise you have more value , if not just enjoy the sex
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Your still emotionally attached to this girl, so your jealousy is natural. If she's dating others whilst rooting you, there's no chance of you ever 'being together' again. That's the harsh reality.
End the F buddy relationship. Other than the sex, all your getting out of it is emotional pain. It's hard, but in the long run it's much more painful with the path your on at the moment.
Get her off that pedastal you prolly have her on