"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question about women giving signs

Nebula

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There's a couple girls I work with, but I've never talked to... that I swear like me. In fact, I'd bet money on it. Like I can tell when I enter the room they gradually look in my direction, or suddenly glance at me as I walk past. I don't know. Maybe they try to hide it and that's why I pick up on it. Their mannerisms just change when I'm around.

My question is, are they trying to make it obvious they're interested, or am I just good at reading signs?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KingBeef

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Nebula said:
There's a couple girls I work with, but I've never talked to... that I swear like me. In fact, I'd bet money on it.
Why are you doubting yourself???? YOU KNOW THEY LIKE YOU....SUBCONSCIOUSLY YOU KNOW!!!!! TRUST YOUR GUT.... It's rarely wrong...

Ask the girls out...

- Kingbeef
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Quit worrying about when they look at you and other bs. Talk to them and setup a date if you wanna know if they like you.
 
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