"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about Women Code

fmadison

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Hi,

I have a question about girl code and the meaning of the following phrase mentioned by women:
"That is so sweet!"


I did something that she was surprised by:

In your experience when something you all done in the past was it the kiss of death or a positive thing?

Looking for possible girl code translations.

Thanks.

Frank
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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rgeere

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Note the following catch words....

"sweet" "caring" "sensitive" "funny" "entertaining" "humble"
"meek" "weak" "submissive" "nice"

Any of these words can mean:

YOU ARE NOT PLAYING THE GAME RIGHT AND SHE IS LOSING INTEREST LIKE THE SINKING TITANIC....

'nuff said...
 
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Grey Fox

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Just watch how she acts towards you, it speaks volumes about what she thinks. Her actions will also betray how she truely feels and what she thinks of you. Learn to see what she says with her body language and actions, you will no longer need to ask for translations about the language of women.

-Grey Fox
 
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For some womem 'you are so sweet' means I love you and want to marry you. For other women it means you are a good non-romantic friend and that is all!!
 

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When a girl says "You" and the other word "Nice" - she is casting you off as a friend/submissive/whatever. If you weren't interested in her, who gives a crap right?

Same thing for "Sweet" or other words of appreciating you "You are handsome" "You are so caring."

If she is looking you deep in your eyes and is close to you, saying those words while her body is close against you with then she really LIKES you.

If she is looking away/distant and says those things then she doesn't consider much about you. I recommend attacking her back on her game by telling her something she isn't to put her in her place.. if she is a ugly biotch who has ugly eyes just say she has the most magnificent eyes without looking at her.

This is adding up to Grey Fox's post.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten

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i know that the phrase "well how nice" means "fek yew retard"

i use it alot:)
 
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