"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question about "where to start" thread

Duracell_Bunny

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Just begun option b


DAY 1(eg. Monday)
Squats 2 x 5
Squats or Leg Press 1 x 15 (lighter weight)
Good Mornings or Stiff Leg Deadlifts or Sumo Leg Press 2 x 10-15
Glute Ham Raise or Pullthroughs or Hyperextension 2 x 8
Calf Raises 2 x 10

DAY 2(eg. Wednesday)
Incline Press 2 x 5
Dumbbell Press (Flat/Decline) or Dips 2 x 8-10
Shoulder Press 2 x 8-12
Tricep Exercise 2 x 10-15

DAY 3(eg. Friday)
Deadlifts 2 x 5
Row or Chinup/Pulldown 2 x 8
Bicep Curl 2 x 8-10
Forearm Exercise 2 x 10-15
I like the idea of it being non-nonsense straight to the point but the workouts do not feel intense as they should be. I'm in the habbit anyway of noting down each weight and reps I do, then making each harder the following week.

I've got used to doing supersets and feeling satisfied after my workouts.

Am I having the right resting time? - I have two minutes after each set, and three minutes between exercises.

Overall the workout feels very short. I even had a spotter last night on incline bench and we got the weight just right when I failed 3 quarters of the way up on the fifth rep.

Today I feel full of energy with no soreness :confused:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Personally, I only rest 40 - 120 seconds between each set. Unless I'm doing Heavy lifts or Power lifts. I'll rest closer to 2 min between sets.

You can change up your reps and sets to get more of a pump. You can change up the weight and decrease rest time. You have to experiment a little to find what works for you.

Are you keeping a training journal and taken your measurements?
 

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Yeah think I might do that, B just doesn't seem to do it for me.

Bit confused though, is it defiantly 3x5 for option A. I've seen everywhere over the interweb its 5x5?

@GameTime76 yeah I always keep a journal. I get calliper tested about once a month. Right now I'm 165ibs at 13% bf.
 
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