"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question about water

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I was talking to a guy and he said that say 1 cup of tea does not equal 1 cup of water, and same for protein shake, or anything that has something added to water. He is not a scientist, and had no scientific explanation. His argument was that "...your body does not process water with stuff added to it as it does pure water". To me this sounds like garbage since you can drink water with a meal and the stuff ends up mixing in your stomach anyway.

So just to be sure, I want to see what people here say. The main reason is that most of my water intake is through protein shakes, and I do have tea almost daily.

On a similar note, does milk count toward water intake? I have not been counting it towards that, but it would be nice to know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ENIGMA16

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Water is water, no matter how you consume it. The guy is an idiot.
 

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Actually that guy is mostly correct. I'm afraid you sir, are the idiot.

The reason why is water is necessary for hydrolysis of many compounds. So if you have a protein shake with 12 oz of water, it isnt quite the same as drinking a pure glass of water. The water will be used to both bind to the dry protein, making it consumable; and also to hydrolyze (break down into constituents) the protein in your gut.

Tea contains caffeine, which is a mild diuretic.

If you ONLY got your water from mixed sources (like shakes, tea, etc.), your body will certainly utilize that, but you would likely find yourself in a state of mild hypohydration. Any consumable liquid is hydrating to some degree, but you need to consume water by itself to ensure that it gets absorbed immediately and utilized in other important reactions and processes, not preferentially used in the breakdown and digestion of orally consumed nutrients.
 

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Mixed compounds will always act or be treated different then pure.
 

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It's recommended to drink a gallon of water a day for weightlifters, more on the days they are lifting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ENIGMA16

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Actually that guy is mostly correct. I'm afraid you sir, are the idiot.

The reason why is water is necessary for hydrolysis of many compounds. So if you have a protein shake with 12 oz of water, it isnt quite the same as drinking a pure glass of water. The water will be used to both bind to the dry protein, making it consumable; and also to hydrolyze (break down into constituents) the protein in your gut.

Tea contains caffeine, which is a mild diuretic.

If you ONLY got your water from mixed sources (like shakes, tea, etc.), your body will certainly utilize that, but you would likely find yourself in a state of mild hypohydration. Any consumable liquid is hydrating to some degree, but you need to consume water by itself to ensure that it gets absorbed immediately and utilized in other important reactions and processes, not preferentially used in the breakdown and digestion of orally consumed nutrients.
This guy was saying that other liquids don't count towards the gallon. That's false, which you have also shown here. So I agree with you. The guy is an idiot. :rock:
 

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Most of my liquid intake is my 2.2 litres of milk. Plus a bit of fruit juice/water when available.
I should probs add a litre of water on top of this then?

Cure.
 

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Add 2 litres of water on top of this, or drink more milk.
 

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Chuck some 1L bottles in the fridge at night. Drink them the next day, and repeat.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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