Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Question about the Saddam (and other political) Threads

Dominus

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Is discussing politics/current events at all really that bad? I guess I could see why that first Saddam thread got locked, maybe. It did get a bit nasty there, but still. And that second one, nobody even argued about anything and the thread got locked. Which means it was the subject matter that was the problem. I know that there have been countless arguements about the Iraq war, but this is a major developement, which has global implications. Of course, its entirely up to the moderators what should be allowed, but I think its reasonable to let people talk about major current events here. After all, it is the anything else forum, for discussing "Sports, the weather, what's happening in the news... or anything else".

Oh, of course, the main reason for me posting this is because I want recognition for being enough of a history buff to answer K Street's question in the original thread. :cool:

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tryin to Grow a Chin

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Ideally, your mastery of semantics would result in revocation of the ban on political threads.

But realistically, all that is likely to happen is for the description of the "Anything Else" forum to be modified so no one will get the wrong idea in the future.
 

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All I have to say on the matter is that intelligent, mature individuals (those of which I'm sure we can agree are no longer in the majority here) that can bring this forum back to its former state of greatness will be much more inclined to post on a board that is defined by its diversity of QUALITY posts, rather than a board that is defined by its censorship.

Just my .02.
 

Helter Skelter

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Most of the intelligent, experienced DJ's have left this forum. The management it seems would prefer this board to be primarily a forum for teenagers, most who don't know jack shiit because they haven't lived enough yet.
Others were banned because they argued. People argue in real life, so it's only natural that it happens on a message board.

Lets remember the mods prefer boring discussions

I'd liked to hear just one mod say the quality of information and discussions
on this board has improved since they began their banning campaign a couple months ago. This board use to be great as recently as last summer. Now for the most part unfortunately it sucks.

"Welcome to the Don Juan high school forum"

In fairness to
the mods their probably only doing what they've been told to do.
 

Dominus

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Heh, guess I was out of the loop long enough to not realize there was a formal ban, though I remember there being some problems last I was here. Didn't notice the feedback forum already had a similiar thread though.

Personally, I liked discussing politics with fellow DJs.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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