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So got out of a long ass relationship recently and getting back into the dating game. Went out on a date on Monday which went really well. So she has been texting me a lot this week. I ended up calling her on Friday and we set up another date for Monday.

Now I didn't hear from her yesterday which was the first all week which is fine. But I ended up texting her a funny inside joke we had this afternoon. I didn't hear back from her. Now I know she read her bbm,but hasn't responded.

My question --> Since I already texted her once should I text her again. We have planned a date for tomorrow and I wanted to make sure its still on. Or is this a classic case that she is ignoring you in which case ill just move on.
 

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johnm420 said:
Now I didn't hear from her yesterday which was the first all week which is fine.

Actually this is FAR from fine. Why are you guys talking everyday already after one date?! Especially if they're text messages and just lame little texts, you don't have to respond to every one. In other words, to maintain your frame as a challenge you should let the time apart HELP YOU, rather than having constant communication about nothing.

But I ended up texting her a funny inside joke we had this afternoon. I didn't hear back from her. Now I know she read her bbm,but hasn't responded.

Your sounding a little clingy here bro. Yes, I understand why your questioning what your next move should be, but don't worry about her not responding to the joke text; in fact you should take a page out of her book and not always respond to her texts esp when they're pointless.

My question --> Since I already texted her once should I text her again. We have planned a date for tomorrow and I wanted to make sure its still on. Or is this a classic case that she is ignoring you in which case ill just move on.

Only insecure guys who are 2nd guessing everything need to call to confirm. You already set up a date, she agreed to it, if she doesn't call and simply doesn't show up then you know you were dealing with a low quality girl or someone who quickly changed their mind. Assume the sale, so assume the date is still on and show up to wherever you two are suppose to meet and go from there.
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Turns out she lost her phone. She emailed me and the date is still on.

But I will take your advice thank you :)
 
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