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Question about T-bar Rows I Did

LoneSilver

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I wanted to mix up my back routine so I made myself a make shift T-bar by taking off one end of my Olimpic weight bar sticking it in a corner and loading up the other end.

Now after I was through with a few sets and reps I had the most wonder pump in my back better then I had doing Bend Over Rows my lats were pumped as well as the rest of my back.

Here is my question the way I gripped the bar was with my hands above the weights and in a baseball grip style and on each set I alternated my hands and brought the weight to my chest.

Now does placement of hands make a difference in this excercise cause I see on the regular equipment of a T-bar that placement of the hands is behind the weights and I did it above the weights is the reason I ask?

Hope I make sense here.

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Instead of the baseball grip, go steal the v-grip off of one of the cable machines and stick the bar in the crotch of the v-grip.
 

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I do my workouts at home so don't have access to the V-grip but thanks anyway but maybe I can make something up to fit.

LoneSilver

donjuanjovi said:
Instead of the baseball grip, go steal the v-grip off of one of the cable machines and stick the bar in the crotch of the v-grip.
 

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LoneSilver said:
I wanted to mix up my back routine so I made myself a make shift T-bar by taking off one end of my Olimpic weight bar sticking it in a corner and loading up the other end.

Now after I was through with a few sets and reps I had the most wonder pump in my back better then I had doing Bend Over Rows my lats were pumped as well as the rest of my back.

Here is my question the way I gripped the bar was with my hands above the weights and in a baseball grip style and on each set I alternated my hands and brought the weight to my chest.

Now does placement of hands make a difference in this excercise cause I see on the regular equipment of a T-bar that placement of the hands is behind the weights and I did it above the weights is the reason I ask?

Hope I make sense here.

LoneSilver
If I understand what you mean, they will probably be a loss of range of motion. That's why a T-bar is being used vs simply gripping the bar with both hands.

I suggest you to do regular barbell rows. You could do them with 1 hand too (1hand barbell row).

Good luck.

-Mehdi.
 

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I sometimes maybe don't explain myself or articulate what I'm trying to ask but the link below is an example of what I did and it answered my question.

I have to put my hands behind the plates and it's as good as a regular T-bar row and a good routine to add to back work if you don't have excess to a T-Bar Row equipment.

LoneSilver

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/exercises.php?Name=Bent+Over+Two-Arm+Long+Bar+Row
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LoneSilver said:
I sometimes maybe don't explain myself or articulate what I'm trying to ask but the link below is an example of what I did and it answered my question.

I have to put my hands behind the plates and it's as good as a regular T-bar row and a good routine to add to back work if you don't have excess to a T-Bar Row equipment.

LoneSilver

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/exercises.php?Name=Bent+Over+Two-Arm+Long+Bar+Row
No problem, great initiative to show us what you meant.

To answer your question: the way you're doing t-bar row, leads to a decreased rom. Decreased rom allows more weight to be pulled, but development of strength/muscles is less than on a full t-bar row.

My opinion:
do the t-bar rows like you're doing them, but don't forget to do full rom rows (barbell rows, 1 hand barbell rows, pendlay row, dumbbell row, chin-ups, pull-ups).

Hope that helps.

-Mehdi.
 

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Thanks stronglifts, I definitely will continue doing the bend over rows just wanted to mix it up a bit with the T-bar but good insight.

LoneSilver

stronglifts said:
No problem, great initiative to show us what you meant.

To answer your question: the way you're doing t-bar row, leads to a decreased rom. Decreased rom allows more weight to be pulled, but development of strength/muscles is less than on a full t-bar row.

My opinion:
do the t-bar rows like you're doing them, but don't forget to do full rom rows (barbell rows, 1 hand barbell rows, pendlay row, dumbbell row, chin-ups, pull-ups).

Hope that helps.

-Mehdi.
 

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LoneSilver said:
Thanks stronglifts, I definitely will continue doing the bend over rows just wanted to mix it up a bit with the T-bar but good insight.

LoneSilver
You're welcome

-Mehdi.
 
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