"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about sign of interest... do girls show this alot?

ikkenai

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You should've made a move the first moment she spoke about you. Even if it went like this...

"Blah blah blah he's in my class"
"Me?"
"No, I was talking about someone else"
"Oh, okay whatever. So, what's your name?"
*sits down*

See? Just go for it, take ANY opportunity, don't procrastinate and worry about signs. Don't analyze, don't care, just go for it. If you went for it the first time you met her, you'd be hanging with her right now instead of typing this post.

This is a big problem for guys who are starting out, as you clearly are - waiting for an sign or something letting them know when to approach. Don't worry about it! Just approach. Girls aren't going to intiate things. You have to. Don't wait for permission. YOU ARE THE MAN in this situation, play your roll!

There are bazillions of attractive women out there, and you're going to want to interact with all of them. Don't let thinking get in the way of acting. Just do it dude. Worry about signs of interest AFTER you begin talking to her!
 

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