"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Question about sign of interest... do girls show this alot?

ikkenai

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You should've made a move the first moment she spoke about you. Even if it went like this...

"Blah blah blah he's in my class"
"Me?"
"No, I was talking about someone else"
"Oh, okay whatever. So, what's your name?"
*sits down*

See? Just go for it, take ANY opportunity, don't procrastinate and worry about signs. Don't analyze, don't care, just go for it. If you went for it the first time you met her, you'd be hanging with her right now instead of typing this post.

This is a big problem for guys who are starting out, as you clearly are - waiting for an sign or something letting them know when to approach. Don't worry about it! Just approach. Girls aren't going to intiate things. You have to. Don't wait for permission. YOU ARE THE MAN in this situation, play your roll!

There are bazillions of attractive women out there, and you're going to want to interact with all of them. Don't let thinking get in the way of acting. Just do it dude. Worry about signs of interest AFTER you begin talking to her!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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