"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question about sign of interest... do girls show this alot?

ikkenai

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You should've made a move the first moment she spoke about you. Even if it went like this...

"Blah blah blah he's in my class"
"Me?"
"No, I was talking about someone else"
"Oh, okay whatever. So, what's your name?"
*sits down*

See? Just go for it, take ANY opportunity, don't procrastinate and worry about signs. Don't analyze, don't care, just go for it. If you went for it the first time you met her, you'd be hanging with her right now instead of typing this post.

This is a big problem for guys who are starting out, as you clearly are - waiting for an sign or something letting them know when to approach. Don't worry about it! Just approach. Girls aren't going to intiate things. You have to. Don't wait for permission. YOU ARE THE MAN in this situation, play your roll!

There are bazillions of attractive women out there, and you're going to want to interact with all of them. Don't let thinking get in the way of acting. Just do it dude. Worry about signs of interest AFTER you begin talking to her!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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