So I hung out with this girl last night, cute not beautiful or anything. Seemed like a really cool girl. Problem is that the first time we hung out (she's 23 so the word "date" is illegal). When setting up a time and place, I mentioned this Karaoke place, she thought it was a group thing, I told her it wasn't at all, just us two but if she was more into that would be happy to invite her to some events. She back peddled and said it was fine, then asked to go somewhere like a "hidden chill spot". I offered a few other ideas: drinks, movies, club type places. She said she wasn't a big drinker, so I had to think of something else. Anyway decided on this place called Rum Fire on Waikiki beach. Right on the beach, unreal spot. We hang out for a while, I do this rings routine (works very well), we chat it up, then grab a bit to eat. I told her prior we would just grab appetizers (drinks...appetizers...it's a first date, I hope she got that sh*t). We have a good convo. When we sat down, she orders wine, like immediately...chiraz or something (I looked at her first to let her know it was ok, and we had a couple appetizers). During the convo she is showing me pictures of this basically sugar daddy type guy she's been hanging around with. He owns a plane, a big boat, a f*cking 1969 Ferrari, and a killer hog and basically spoils the sh*t out of her. Either way, I think....what do I care, she seems cool, be fun to f*ck, so oh well what do I care if some millionaire spoils her and she gives it up every $1,000 or so... When the check came, she didn't offer at all to pay, which I'm ok with because she just moved here and is looking for a job. She didn't seem to TRY to get me to spend money at all, so even though the bill was more then I would have wanted I was fine with paying it.
Later in the night, I was purposefully vague when it came to what I do, and she was trying to pry it out of me, but I wouldn't give it up. She did get it though that I was a higher up in my company and a boss. She also got it that I live in a 2 bed appt that was ok, but not great or anything. We kissed a few times, it was a nice night overall. Drove her to her car, kissed again and said we would have to do it again soon. Nice night.
Late in the morning, before I sent her anything she sends me a text asking if my mom does psychic readings etc. (was one of our conversation topics, she was really into it, I thought it was interesting). I called Mamacita and asked her, she said she did do this one thing she was asking about. Text girl back letting her know that. She seemed like she wanted to meet my mom, which normally I wouldn't be cool with but she does seem like a cool girl and they would prob hit it off so I'm fine with it. I tell her we can get together on Sun.
She then texts me telling me that "XXXX place is supposed to have an amazing buffet". I check and it's like $45 a plate (f*ck me wayyy overboard). I tell her I'll have to check schedules, what's hers like Sun. She tells me she may be sailing and that she'll let me know after she meets up with (insert money bags name here) tonight. (Was she trying to get me to compete by mentioning that, I wonder?). Instead of reacting, I say "Ya, evening is probably better for me too. Let me know" and that's that.
ok. sorry for the long ass story. The goal is to not let her hold this frame of holding this guy over my head with his cash flaunting and to figure out if she's actually in it for the cash, if she's going to be disappointed if I can't do all those cool things, and how to pre-empt that possibility . She did say she has a lot of guy friends (red flag), but she also specifically told me she isn't sleeping with any of these guys etc.
So gentlemen, this is about using game to beat a multimillionaire. How do I make him lose value, if needed and get her addicted to my d*ck. She's actually a cool girl, so winning would be good, but I'm not attached to the outcome, I want to win to learn better game.
Later in the night, I was purposefully vague when it came to what I do, and she was trying to pry it out of me, but I wouldn't give it up. She did get it though that I was a higher up in my company and a boss. She also got it that I live in a 2 bed appt that was ok, but not great or anything. We kissed a few times, it was a nice night overall. Drove her to her car, kissed again and said we would have to do it again soon. Nice night.
Late in the morning, before I sent her anything she sends me a text asking if my mom does psychic readings etc. (was one of our conversation topics, she was really into it, I thought it was interesting). I called Mamacita and asked her, she said she did do this one thing she was asking about. Text girl back letting her know that. She seemed like she wanted to meet my mom, which normally I wouldn't be cool with but she does seem like a cool girl and they would prob hit it off so I'm fine with it. I tell her we can get together on Sun.
She then texts me telling me that "XXXX place is supposed to have an amazing buffet". I check and it's like $45 a plate (f*ck me wayyy overboard). I tell her I'll have to check schedules, what's hers like Sun. She tells me she may be sailing and that she'll let me know after she meets up with (insert money bags name here) tonight. (Was she trying to get me to compete by mentioning that, I wonder?). Instead of reacting, I say "Ya, evening is probably better for me too. Let me know" and that's that.
ok. sorry for the long ass story. The goal is to not let her hold this frame of holding this guy over my head with his cash flaunting and to figure out if she's actually in it for the cash, if she's going to be disappointed if I can't do all those cool things, and how to pre-empt that possibility . She did say she has a lot of guy friends (red flag), but she also specifically told me she isn't sleeping with any of these guys etc.
So gentlemen, this is about using game to beat a multimillionaire. How do I make him lose value, if needed and get her addicted to my d*ck. She's actually a cool girl, so winning would be good, but I'm not attached to the outcome, I want to win to learn better game.
