"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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question about qualifying

david90

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Is it a bad to qualify a girl who's not attracted to you? The way I see it is that not qualifying is like a neg hit. When u qualify a girl, ur basically put her on the pedestal.

If a girl is initially attracted to you, then I think qualifying her would be good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ketostix

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First, what's your definition of qualifying. My understanding of qualifying is it's letting the girl know you're interested in her as dating pontential, right?
 

david90

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I thought it's when u acknowledge her values. I'm a noob
 
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