"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about Pubic Hair

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Yo guys

I'm wondering if you guys let your pubic hair grow out or do you "shave" it periodically? Advantages and Disadvantages?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ChrizZ

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I shave it once in a while. To me it´s more comfortable and it also makes it look bigger.
 

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I get jack shi1t by way of girls but I shave a landing strip in...it just looks cool :rockon:
 

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I think actual shaving is a turn-off for most girls.
I keep it trimmed and neat. I use a beard trimmer with a real short guard. Keep the very base of the shaft and the sack hair free.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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another totally gay post. gay boys are fascinated with this question. girls really don't give a damn. if she does she probably has some hormone problems.
 

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sparky0000 said:
girls really don't give a damn./QUOTE]

Wrong,they actually do. I was talking with a female co-worker about sex and I told her girls should be trimmed just like guys should be. She said this right after I said that;

"You're right,I won't touch my husbands balls because it is all hairy,it's groce."(She had a weird look on her face when she mentioned the hair on the balls)
 

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What a wise man told me:

My Dad told me this when my brother and I were wee little tykes:

"Shave that sh!t motherfvcker, I don't want to go to the Dentist for a haircut!"

That has been with me for over 25 years. Talk about sound advice!

Love my Pops
 

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ChrizZ said:
I shave it once in a while. To me it´s more comfortable and it also makes it look bigger.
I tried it once, to me it's less comfortable, more itchy, prickly, and stubbly. And I don't think it makes your penis look bigger, and even if it did, who does it look bigger for? The guys in the lockerroom? Who gives a rat's ass about what they think? A shaved pubic area looks pre-pubescent, and I spent the first 11 years of my life waiting for pubic hair so I'd lok more like a man. Bottom line is, if you've got a small penis, you've got a small penis, pubic hair or not. I've never had any complaints about my bushy pubic hair from anyone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If I do not keep it at least short, it gets smelly fast.

I am way too hairy.
 

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Trimming is okay, but don't shave it all off, that's disgusting...when a guy shaves his pubic region bald it makes him look like he's 12 years old...which is gross.

Females LIKE the balls to be shaved but DON'T like bald pubic area...too freaky looking. My friends talk about this all the time...they might tell you they like it, but they are laughing about it behind your backs to their friends and calling you a freak. No joke...trim but don't shave.
 

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Whether or not you shave depends on how you like your women. If you prefer girls who have huge mounds overgrown with hair, then don't shave. If you like them clean, then trim. If you like them completely clear, then either shave or trim at your option. I personally have a #2 guard on my trimmers that does the trick.
 

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i prefer trimming, and then shaving the balls. hairy balls get less attention.
shaving all your stuff, makes the hair grow back prickly which is no good either.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How exactly do you shave the sack?

I'm unusually hairy(spanish bloodline), and I'm always apprehensive about going down there with a pair of scissors or a razor blade. I have a set of trimmers, but don't know how best to shave the actual sack.

By the way, to you guys who think we are gay...It's likely that you guys are the ones who are uncomfortable with your sexuality. Gotten it checked recently?
 

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Quiksilver said:
How exactly do you shave the sack?

I'm unusually hairy(spanish bloodline), and I'm always apprehensive about going down there with a pair of scissors or a razor blade. I have a set of trimmers, but don't know how best to shave the actual sack.
Get a decent razor. Schick Quattro is amazing! Then you want to trim it back with an electric trimmer. Once trimmed, go with the grain. I go down from the shaft to the middle of the sac then up from the 'taint back to the middle.

DO NOT GO SIDEWAYS FOR ANY REASON UNLESS YOU WANT TO SPILL YOUR BALLS ALL OVER THE BATHROOM FLOOR.
 

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i just shaved my pubic region and my ass, and everything inbetween last night. talk about a mess, i almost clogged the shower with it. then i get a phone call during work today from my mother asking me if i shaved my pub's in her shower. thats a disadvantage....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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