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This is why having a girlfriend you can trust on birth control is amazingly versatile. hahaha.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by diablo
Both of these statements are patently false, incorrect, and inaccurate. I've read your 'arguments', Porky, and found that you contradict yourself even in a source you quoted:
If something is "higher" than it was before, then that means beforehand it was "lower". In the dictionary's definition of the word, "lower" can not equal "nothing"... In other words, there might not be as many sperm in the pre-ejaculate if the person has not had an orgasm within the past 72 hours (sperm live for 3 days), but there are still some in there.
Furthermore, I find it extremely ironic that you cut out the parts of the Wikipedia definition that counter your argument that pre-ejaculate does not contain any sperm... Here is a quote from Wikipedia that you conveniently "left out":
- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre-ejaculate
No offense, but which do you think will cost more - a box of condoms or raising a child for 18 years (or if you're both pro-choice, an abortion)? Only an idiot would use "they're too expensive" as a reason that they don't wear condoms. Hell, they give them away in every public health center and hospital! How old are you?!
Now, on to the reply.Subject: pre-***
Porky wrote on 10-12-2005 10:25 PM:
you got ***** slapped all over the place in that thread.
thanks
If you didn't intentionally leave out the statement that didn't agree with what you said even after reading it, I apologize. However, let's look at the word "convenient".Originally posted by Porky
I didn't "conveniently" leave anything out, Diablo.
My apologies again. I assumed because you used a word (higher) that you knew its definition.Originally posted by Porky
Okay Diablo, we can be overly technical.
Just because there is more than one source for a topic doesn't mean that the sources are completely accurate (or even slightly accurate, for that matter). Take the following three web sites chosen at random that claim that humans were genetically engineered by aliens:Originally posted by Porky
Exactly why I gave more than one source saying the same thing...
"Most studies" is rather arbitrary. However, it would seem that you must have put in a lot of effort reading the results of said studies in order to determine whether "most studies" agreed or disagreed with your position. Why don't you link us to copies of these studies? Thanks in advance.Originally posted by Porky
most studies show that pre-*** only has ...
http://my.webmd.com/content/article/41/1687_50089.htmUnfortunately this method of contraception ('pulling out') is highly ineffective, because pre-ejaculatory fluid (sometimes called "pre-***") does indeed contain sperm.
http://my.webmd.com/content/article/57/66064.htm?src=rss_cbsnewsThat's because pre-ejaculate -- fluid emitted by the man before ejaculation -- often contains sperm as well as cells that can harbor the AIDS virus.
http://my.webmd.com/content/article/42/1687_50310.htmAlthough you didn't ejaculate inside of her, soon after an erection occurs, a little bit of pre-ejaculatory fluid (which is commonly known as "pre-***" and contains sperm) is released.
Like I mentioned earlier, the point I am making is that pre-ejaculate does indeed contain sperm in most instances - however, thank you for holding my hand, and thank you for your very grown-up PM.Originally posted by Porky
now that I'm done holding your hand through that, is there a point you're trying to make, Diablo?
Actually, that's what I'm in school for...Originally posted by TheRelic
Diablo, you've missed your calling... next time I need a lawyer, i'm calling you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Heh, was under the assumption photography was the yellow brick road.Originally posted by diablo
Actually, that's what I'm in school for...
This is still going on?Originally posted by doctoroxygen
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Bottom line is that you can do what you want, but I'm not going to be joining the "pull-out" club anytime soon... the list of fathers who are members is just too long for my taste.However, if a man has sperm in his urethra from a previous ejaculation, that sperm can be carried by the pre-***. Usually, sperm leftover in the urethra are expelled by urination.
But if the man has not urinated, or has not urinated forcefully enough, the leftover sperm can be transferred to the precum. It may be a smaller amount than the usual 70 million sperm in normal ejaculate – but it just takes one to cause pregnancy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.