"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Question about pointing

oblizue

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So when you are to do something like <point to yourself> etc. are you to physically point to yourself?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SexPDX

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You are not supposed to literally point to yourself with your finger, that would strike a woman as being a little bit ridiculous. What you do is in some way lead her eyes with her hand so that they are focues on you. It's very subtle. What I do since I talk with my hands anyway is to move my hand in between us and ease it towards my sternum.

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Would sublty tapping your chest twice with you finger work? Too obvious? Too subtle?
 

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how about say.. rearanging you shirt collar? or would that make you seem uncomfortable?

i herd sumwhere just placing your hand on you chest is a good idea?.. sorta like you scrathing yourself.. rofl

can sumone give more description as to how you point towads yourself.

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Bump...still no concrete answer here. I've wondered the same thing myself. SexPDX, more elaboration please.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SEXpdx, you explanation helped me here. Previously I'd been getting visions of a certain bespectacled skinny geek trying to work this all out for the first time, (literally) pointing at his schlong, then pointing at her mouth, then back...(thinking)"Damn, is it schlong-mouth-schlong-mouth-mouth? Or mouth-schlong-mouth-schlong-weaselphrase?.... oh ****! Did I just say that out loud? Oh um, sorry babe, can I buy you a drink? err, what's your sign, err...ahh what do I care, below me."
 

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Originally posted by SexPDX
What you do is in some way lead her eyes with her hand so that they are focues on you. It's very subtle.
Any other suggestions about pointing?
 
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