question about my oneitis

[BadsnakeUK]

Yeah I've experienced this switch from sweet and loving to total b1tch when we break up. The first time this happened really shocked me. It was back in my darkest AFC days and believed women were the sweet, caring angels we're all brought up to believe, so it really f*cked my head up.

It still makes me a bit sad at times that I'll probably never be able to be really express how I feel about a woman because it will be the kiss of death for us.

Why do they do it? I don't know but I guess its something to do with them taking out their resentment and disappointment on you that you weren't the guy they built you up to be in their head. They don't have the benefit of logic to temper their emotions on the way up, so when they're down on you, the same is also true. Its why they're so up and down about everything.

 

[Juan_Man]

Been there. It hurts but you have to keep telling yourself (because it's the truth) that this girl did you a favor by allowing you to meet other women. Also, realize that most relationships end because one person lost an attraction to the other person. You may have been the heartbreaker yourself at one point (I know I was). Everyone goes through pain when it comes to dating and relationships.

 

[connor32]

your right on fellas. it's really easy to start seeing a chick as a "caring, sweet, angel." the heartless b'tch can come out the moment u show some weakness though. it's all evolutionary biology.