"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Question about Meeting New Girls

fox144112

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hey guys, new to the forum and had a question. so i go to an all boys school hs, and theres an all girl hs right next to us and all of us go there and just hang out during lunch. my problem is i know almost all of the guys but they know most of the girls from middle school and i dont know that many so its pretty awkward just hanging out there. so how can i meet some girls from there?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NorwegianDJ

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Fortress Maximus said:
You sound like a loser. Don't waste your time and date man.

Cheers.
I lol at the raging troll. Sort your life out first, before posting **** advise like this.

I'm not gonna say a lot on this subject really. First of, it sounds like you have to become comfortable with yourself first. Gain confidence, that is. Second, expand your social circle. Get to know more guys and girls. They will introduce you to other people. Social proof is a big one. I'll link you. - EDIT, cant PM you for some reason. Think you might need more post counts?
 
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