"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question about Meeting New Girls

fox144112

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hey guys, new to the forum and had a question. so i go to an all boys school hs, and theres an all girl hs right next to us and all of us go there and just hang out during lunch. my problem is i know almost all of the guys but they know most of the girls from middle school and i dont know that many so its pretty awkward just hanging out there. so how can i meet some girls from there?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NorwegianDJ

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Fortress Maximus said:
You sound like a loser. Don't waste your time and date man.

Cheers.
I lol at the raging troll. Sort your life out first, before posting **** advise like this.

I'm not gonna say a lot on this subject really. First of, it sounds like you have to become comfortable with yourself first. Gain confidence, that is. Second, expand your social circle. Get to know more guys and girls. They will introduce you to other people. Social proof is a big one. I'll link you. - EDIT, cant PM you for some reason. Think you might need more post counts?
 
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