"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question about kinoing in this situation

Flabbergasped?

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Alright, this is a purely technical question.

I'm at a frat house with this girl. She's driving, so she's sober. I've had a little (just finished my finals). After all the typical game-spitting, I isolate and bring her outside. Here's the problem:

The chairs outside were the plastic ones with armrests, you know, the white ones that are really cheap. When we sit down, I end up being face to face with her (that is, our chairs are facing each other). In terms of convo, things were going decently fine, but I couldn't kino her at all besides grabbing her knee or something every so often. Unfortunately, these chairs were the only option.

So, what can you do for kino when logistically that screwed, without looking desperate? Of course, one answer is to find a better place to isolate, but given what I chose, what could I have done.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Flabbergasped?

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Very productive.

My question sort of extends to all situations in which you are sitting facing the girl (at a dinner, for example). I'm hoping that it's not impossible to kino chicks in those situations without playing footsies or something stupid.

Gaming that girl was pretty silly in general. The frat house was playing the worst music ever for a while. This was an issue because I am an amazing dancer (yea, I said it) and have a really good closing rate if I get to dance with a girl and get her worked up.

After a slump in convo brought about by me not being able to kino, the music got pretty good (Timbaland's new album), and I brought her out to the dance floor. A 3 min dance later, she was fired up again.

Take dance classes guys, it helps so much.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Lower the volume of your voice or tell her something very important in confidence (like pointing out something about someone who is nearby). Create a situation that would require the two of you sitting closer in order to hear one another.
 
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