"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Question About Kino!

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Hi..

I have some question about it.
When you spot a girl(maybe someone you know) on the hallway, school orwhatsoever and you got the eyecontact/and she say "hi" longbefore shes near you, would it be natrual to do kino when she stop right ifront of you to talk with you? ( she comes, and you say hi, while you do that you touching her at arm? ) The point here is not to stop her, cuz thats easy.. But when she goes to you and stop. Would it just be natural to kino her right away? "hi" clap on the shoulder or arm++.

I know its not a must-thing, and just could touch her later in the convo. but it feels kinda awkward when you not touching her early


Yup, Im sorry for my English.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ur overanalyzing, i would just do it based on how it feels at the moment in time, and not thinking about it before
 

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Grab her slightly on the arm or tap her shoulder as she walks by to get her to stop? Just do it. Soon enough if will become natural.

Parties are a great place to practise because no one cares as much and you can get away with much more. I bet ya that if you practise kino at a party you will score ;)
 

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I didnt mean that. What I trying to say is, what if she stop and say hi right infront of you instead of go past me and say hi.

example: I walking by the hallway, then I see her coming from another hallway (5meter orso) and she say hi when she see me from the distance(5m) or hi when she r like 1meter infront of me, and stop right infront of me. Would it then be natural to touch her? on both of the ex?

- She sees me and I see her, she say hi from (5meters+) and then stop, and then I say Hi and touch her on the arm (opposite: If I am the one who walk)
- She sees me, but dont say nothing, until she stop me and say hi FIRST.

sure, I know what to do if the person go past me and say hi, just clap orsomething or stop her. But not if she stop byherself.


Yes I know i overanalyzing, but i just want to know if its feel natural.
-Thank you
 

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My lil thing I do sometimes is push them a bit and say "What you wanna fight?" and go from there.Then you could say stuff like "Whats with these dirty looks youve been giving me,I dont appreciate them".I have done this loads of times and it works like a charm plus it adds alot of kino
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah I know, I use that sometimes.



bah, it seemse no one knows what I mean, crap. Anyway, thanks for replies.
 

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