"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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question about jobs requiring travel

wootapotky

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I'm going to be a sophomore in college next year and I'm not exactly sure what it is that I want to do. But one thing I for sure want to do is to travel and live in a bunch of countries, but I'm not sure what jobs would let me do that. Preferrably I would get a job that has me live in a country for a couple of years and then live in a different country for a couple of years, and so on.

I was looking up jobs that require travel and I found that auditors and consultants usually travel a lot. But I'm not really sure what they are and what major in college they would require. So I guess my question is what jobs would have me travel and/or live in a different country that pays a lot?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Teach foreign languages to the locals.
 

RedPill

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Be an archaeologist or anthropologist. Those are very accomodating careers for someone interested in world travel.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Be a drug smuggler, arms smuggler, or journalist.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sparky0000

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Auditors and consultants are usually much older than you. They are all over Russia and other parts of Eastern Europe. You can usually find many of them at American themed restaurants (think TGIFriday's in Kiev) with pretty teenage locals who usually giggle at their lame jokes even if they can't understand a word the guy is saying. To be honest, most of them don't even know what the hell they are doing. They do get really nice Western style apartments. Most of them really annoy me.

Most arms smugglers hardly ever leave the comfort of their homes. They simply redirect shipments of arms.

Save some money starting NOW. Work on a language or two. Avoid stupid college students. Move back in with your family. Then when you are done with school leave.
 
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