"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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question about girls and their attraction

thedude4242

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I got a question. when you are socializing with women at a neutral place where people go and you talk to a girl and tease her a lot and bust her balls and she looks at you like no you didnt but always get a big smile on her face and sometimes hits you is that any kind of attraction?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sounds like an open invite for kino. Definite potential for attraction at minimum. Just gotta play it right my man.
 

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Read the Bible. The answer to this question is in there. You're busting on her in a good spirited way (****y funny or whatever) + she's reacting playfully and smiling (IOI) + she's play smacking you (KINO) = she's actively following your lead ---(attraction)
 

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I see a lot of things on the forum about playing hard to get. why do you get a number and then within 3-4 days call. wouldnt that show that you like her and give her that exact impression. 3-4 is toos soon or not?
 

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Everyone has their own style and reasons for it. Whatever you decide, make sure you LEAD and everything you do comes from a position of you being the "Catch" not her. You really should read the DJ Bible. Start with Pook or Fingers. The Bible is located at the bottom of the Forum page. It's a monster good starting point!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thedude4242

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I think calling and texting within a week she then thinks she got you and the power has turned with one call and or text.

so I text the girl back and forth a few times and she was using lol and talking good. she didnt have any short simple answers. I was suppose to call her later and I did she didnt answer then I sent her a text with the answer of the question I was suppose to give her when I called her. whats up with that guys?
 

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after asking a woman out and she says she has something to do how do you get the upper hand again. I was talking to this girl and got her into the conversation and wanted to quit texting her the next question she asked but I couldnt be mean.
 

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If you're busting a chick's balls with kino and she's smiling back at you, then you can F her right then, right there, that day.

Why are you asking how many days?

There is no rule. Do as you please. Grab her number and meet up another time, or tell her that she can come to your place that night. Or just point to your car and tell her let's go now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thedude4242

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Ive had all those success signs. I know they are there. so you get ahold of her via the phone and she cant do nothing tonight because she got to....blah blah blah. but then still talks to you via text for about an hour. what is up with this. please no sarcastic answers?
 

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the only thing is what if they give you a taste of your own medecine then pull that **** right back at you but a lot worse.
 
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