"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thedude4242

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I got a question. when you are socializing with women at a neutral place where people go and you talk to a girl and tease her a lot and bust her balls and she looks at you like no you didnt but always get a big smile on her face and sometimes hits you is that any kind of attraction?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sounds like an open invite for kino. Definite potential for attraction at minimum. Just gotta play it right my man.
 

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Read the Bible. The answer to this question is in there. You're busting on her in a good spirited way (****y funny or whatever) + she's reacting playfully and smiling (IOI) + she's play smacking you (KINO) = she's actively following your lead ---(attraction)
 

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I see a lot of things on the forum about playing hard to get. why do you get a number and then within 3-4 days call. wouldnt that show that you like her and give her that exact impression. 3-4 is toos soon or not?
 

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Everyone has their own style and reasons for it. Whatever you decide, make sure you LEAD and everything you do comes from a position of you being the "Catch" not her. You really should read the DJ Bible. Start with Pook or Fingers. The Bible is located at the bottom of the Forum page. It's a monster good starting point!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thedude4242

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I think calling and texting within a week she then thinks she got you and the power has turned with one call and or text.

so I text the girl back and forth a few times and she was using lol and talking good. she didnt have any short simple answers. I was suppose to call her later and I did she didnt answer then I sent her a text with the answer of the question I was suppose to give her when I called her. whats up with that guys?
 

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after asking a woman out and she says she has something to do how do you get the upper hand again. I was talking to this girl and got her into the conversation and wanted to quit texting her the next question she asked but I couldnt be mean.
 

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If you're busting a chick's balls with kino and she's smiling back at you, then you can F her right then, right there, that day.

Why are you asking how many days?

There is no rule. Do as you please. Grab her number and meet up another time, or tell her that she can come to your place that night. Or just point to your car and tell her let's go now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thedude4242

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Ive had all those success signs. I know they are there. so you get ahold of her via the phone and she cant do nothing tonight because she got to....blah blah blah. but then still talks to you via text for about an hour. what is up with this. please no sarcastic answers?
 

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the only thing is what if they give you a taste of your own medecine then pull that **** right back at you but a lot worse.
 
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