"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

question about girl in class

falconslax89

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2009
Messages
249
Reaction score
3
Location
Earth
so this is something ive always been a little confused over..its not really that big of a deal but i thought id ask.

heres the situation...theres this girl in my class that always sat in front of me and i never really noticed her before. anyway i had to sit next to her today because some ***** was in my usual seat. we paired up and worked on an assignment together. i asked her her name and where she was from and we talked the whole time. i made her laugh a lot. used c&f. but...i didn't ask for her number.
i figured what the hell, shes in my class.. ill see her every other day, and just get it next time. did i make a mistake in not getting her number at my first opportunity or is it not that big of a deal?
before i found this site i wouldn't have thought twice about it being a mistake , however you guys seem to put an emphasis on not waiting and just making the move at first chance.
am i over thinking this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
Not a big deal. You're fine. If it were a bar or some situation where you'll never see her again, then it would be a problem.

You're doing good. Don't stress.
 

Dubh

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2009
Messages
102
Reaction score
3
yea man your good but dont wait to long because you dont want to be friendzoned b4 to long
 

falconslax89

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2009
Messages
249
Reaction score
3
Location
Earth
also..after i facebook creeped her i see that she has a boyfriend..however he lives 3 hours away. continue after her as usual??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top