"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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question about girl at school

lsu03

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there is this one girl who i kind of like. she is an ATHLETE and pretty smart. oh did i mention hot. we are friends. we joke and stuff but don't really see her liking me right now. the other day i casually gave her a high five while she came into class, but instead she gave me the "modern day handshake", then held my hand a second and smiled.



can someone give me some tips.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If you don't see her liking you than she probably doesn't.. thats part of your gut feeling.
 

young_gun

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There's only one way to really find out. You better ask her out! :GASP:

Ask her out to lunch or get her to go out and party with you sometime.
 
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