"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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question about girl at school

lsu03

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there is this one girl who i kind of like. she is an ATHLETE and pretty smart. oh did i mention hot. we are friends. we joke and stuff but don't really see her liking me right now. the other day i casually gave her a high five while she came into class, but instead she gave me the "modern day handshake", then held my hand a second and smiled.



can someone give me some tips.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If you don't see her liking you than she probably doesn't.. thats part of your gut feeling.
 

young_gun

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There's only one way to really find out. You better ask her out! :GASP:

Ask her out to lunch or get her to go out and party with you sometime.
 
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