"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Question about Essex (UK)

zentraveller

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I was just surfing some nightlife pics of this county and the women look GREAT.

Just curious what the cities/women are like in Essex (specifically Chelmsford and Southend), and if people commute to London fairly easily?

Thanks.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some decent girls... lots of fallacies, but the top end Essex girls use London as a nightspot

The largest number of HB9 girls are found in London on a night out... but competition is fierce like that ... you want a potentially easier HB9, then the smaller towns, altho having less in number makes for an easier stomping ground
 

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They have a reputation as being Slappers. Hence all the Essex girl jokes.

I'm sure it's not all true though

;)

Squaddies love being posted there (nr Chelmsford) because of the easy lays, there was even a TV documentary about it.

The lads also have a reputation for being Yobs and racist football hooligans, again this is merely a stereotype I'm sure ;)

In my opinion, you get a much better class of slut in Bristol.:D
 
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