“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Question about decline/bench in general

MikeYikes122

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2003
Messages
839
Reaction score
30
I have freakishly long arms. I'm 5'10, but my wingspan is like 6'3... maybe even longer than that. This makes decline a pain in the a$$ and way harder than it should actually be. I know I should just gut through it and do it anyway, but sometimes the strain gets real, real bad especially in my upper back/lower neck area. I have had a twinge in my neck dating back to a car accident that happened when I was teenager.

Off of a friend's recommendation, I stopped doing decline a couple of months ago and just started doing flat bench twice - once with the bar and once with the free weights. I try to get a ton reps in on each. I do a pyramid with the bar. I start out with about 12-15 reps at 135 pounds and then build up to one or two reps of 185, 175 or 165 depending upon how I'm feeling. I then go back down the pyramid, doing about six reps apiece at all the weights I did on the way up. I then do to free weight bench usually at the end of the workout after doing three sets of free-weight inclines, three sets of butterflys (on the machine because my arms are so damn long), dips and usually two sets of push-ups to finish things off. I can usually get 40 and 25 push-ups, respectively, but sometimes less.

I do this workout once a week.

My question is, my bench hasn't gone up in a real, real long time. I'm wondering, is this the result of me cutting out decline or am I just doing something wrong in my chest workout that is keeping me from getting stronger? I've read decline isn't all that important, but I thought maybe somehow it's different for me. I don't know. I also am not sure if I've gotten visibly bigger in the chest area. I have a really hard time judging that, but I do know I haven't gotten stronger in a real long time.

Could it maybe be that I need to add mass. At last weigh-in, I was only 147 pounds.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
MikeYikes122 said:
I have freakishly long arms. I'm 5'10, but my wingspan is like 6'3... maybe even longer than that. This makes decline a pain in the a$$ and way harder than it should actually be. I know I should just gut through it and do it anyway, but sometimes the strain gets real, real bad especially in my upper back/lower neck area. I have had a twinge in my neck dating back to a car accident that happened when I was teenager.

Off of a friend's recommendation, I stopped doing decline a couple of months ago and just started doing flat bench twice - once with the bar and once with the free weights. I try to get a ton reps in on each. I do a pyramid with the bar. I start out with about 12-15 reps at 135 pounds and then build up to one or two reps of 185, 175 or 165 depending upon how I'm feeling. I then go back down the pyramid, doing about six reps apiece at all the weights I did on the way up. I then do to free weight bench usually at the end of the workout after doing three sets of free-weight inclines, three sets of butterflys (on the machine because my arms are so damn long), dips and usually two sets of push-ups to finish things off. I can usually get 40 and 25 push-ups, respectively, but sometimes less.

I do this workout once a week.

My question is, my bench hasn't gone up in a real, real long time. I'm wondering, is this the result of me cutting out decline or am I just doing something wrong in my chest workout that is keeping me from getting stronger? I've read decline isn't all that important, but I thought maybe somehow it's different for me. I don't know. I also am not sure if I've gotten visibly bigger in the chest area. I have a really hard time judging that, but I do know I haven't gotten stronger in a real long time.

Could it maybe be that I need to add mass. At last weigh-in, I was only 147 pounds.
If decline is hurting you then don't do it, simple as that, you shouldn't be doing any exercise thats causing you pain (by pain i don't mean normal toughness of the lift pain)

As for your bench not going up. Just from you posting your chest workout, i can tell you lots of reasons why your bench isn't going up.

Your chest workout out is a mess, that probably means the workouts for the rest of your body are a mess, probably also means your diet is a mess.

So your answer is to look in the vault and find the where to start post.
 

MikeYikes122

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2003
Messages
839
Reaction score
30
Thanks, I'll take a look at it.

I'm not extremely serious about weight lifting. I just do it because it makes me feel good. I can't really explain what I mean.

As for my diet, I don't eat poorly. Only from time to time I eat bad food, and that's because my job requires me to travel a lot and sometimes there just isn't any alternative.
 

Warboss Alex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2005
Messages
4,113
Reaction score
29
MikeYikes122 said:
Thanks, I'll take a look at it.

I'm not extremely serious about weight lifting. I just do it because it makes me feel good. I can't really explain what I mean.

As for my diet, I don't eat poorly. Only from time to time I eat bad food, and that's because my job requires me to travel a lot and sometimes there just isn't any alternative.
there are always alternatives, such as preparing food in advance etc

as for your bench, listen to EFFORT
 

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
MikeYikes122 said:
Thanks, I'll take a look at it.

I'm not extremely serious about weight lifting. I just do it because it makes me feel good.

Thats cool. You can only expect so much progress though if your not too serious about it.
 

Frink'

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2005
Messages
78
Reaction score
1
Age
41
With travelling, you can bring protein shakes and walnuts. It's practical. Unless it's a buissnes lunch. Then you might just have to do whatever makes you fit in. Protein bars are nice though.
 
Top