"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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question about david's interview

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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i wanna order some of his new interviews, but do i hve to pay every month or somthin like that? i just want to have a few of his david's gurus. if anyone of you buy his interviews, can you help me out here? will i really get my money back if i don't like it just like david mentioned in the newletters? if so, will that be hard?

thank you very much for replying

P.S. i tried downloading, but they only have the old ones. there is this new one i particularly like. that why.
:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, you have to pay for it every month but i wouldn't recommend it because the information becomes redundant after you receive like 20 cd's like me.

Yes, i still receive the cd's every month but i listen to half of the disc then get boared and put it up.
 

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;) You can always download his stuff off eMule.

;)

Or if you know how to use ftp's. Then I have 3 of his interview tapes. I think... pm me if you're interested. And no... I'm not giving you a crash course on ftp transfers.
 

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well

i really have to get this one before march 10 midnight pacific time. anyone can help me out. is there a way to get this interview before that time. please.

by the way, i dont know which one in emule to download since there are so much catagories. which one has the new or latest interview from david d. there?

thanks
 

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Originally posted by Faded Image
Yeah, you have to pay for it every month but i wouldn't recommend it because the information becomes redundant after you receive like 20 cd's like me.

Yes, i still receive the cd's every month but i listen to half of the disc then get boared and put it up.
Where do you go to sign up for these?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: pleeeeeeeeeease

Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
please, i really need to get this one. please help me out here
Which interview is it?
 

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bump

sorry posted that under the wrong thread.
 

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well.....

any more people order his interviews? i only want this one. i dont mind order it myself, but what if i dont get my refund back. even though david d. said i can, he didn't say how will i get my money back. if i later on send a letter about refund, i doubt he will reply. so i dont want to risk on losing my money every month. besides, like i said, i only wanted this interview.

anybody can help me? please?
 

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Re: well.....

Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
but what if i dont get my refund back.
You've heard of a "chargeback", right? It's where you call the credit card company, let them know that the product you ordered was of sub-standard quality (or that you were promised a refund which was never given) and they credit the money back to your account. Voila, your refund.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If anyone has it and wants to send it to him, try using "yousendit.com" This allows you to send large files to people's emails very easily.
 

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mate, you're a typical example of good marketing.

you recieve the deangelo e-mail and read then fully and you read all of his, "you really don't want to miss this", "you'll have no trouble approaching any woman after this" blah blah. Then you just HAVE to have it. BUT, those interviews are just money makers for Deangelo. You will find much better **** in the DJ bible.
 

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Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
i wanna order some of his new interviews, but do i hve to pay every month or somthin like that? i just want to have a few of his david's gurus. if anyone of you buy his interviews, can you help me out here? will i really get my money back if i don't like it just like david mentioned in the newletters? if so, will that be hard?

thank you very much for replying

P.S. i tried downloading, but they only have the old ones. there is this new one i particularly like. that why.
:)

The only thing you have to lose by trying something new is the pain of regret from not trying something new
 

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First of all, he is annoying...

whenever his "guest" is on an interesting track, David has to jump in, add some high school grade stupida** comment, ask a silly question, and destroy the flow...

Not to mention, that when his guest in on a track different that c & f, he disturbs the flow of the conversation to pull it back to "his" theory of c&f, and f**ks up all the info you were about to hear.

I listen to the tapes now and then, basically when I have no Eddie Murphy or Ron White, etc left on my mp3 player.


Go read the bible,

Then just have a play with confidence.

think of a cat playing with a hamster.

You are the cat.

DD, can't be the hair on your d**k.


P.S.: If you are totally clueless though, then DD is a good starting point.
 

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That's an interesting viewpoint. I do find him annoying sometimes too, mainly because he acts like some kind of marketing manager, "Dear Freind, I hardly ever do this!!" Yeah, every second e-mail you do.

But when I downloaded one of the interviews (about a four minute snippet) the guy he was talking to didn't understand his question and went off on a tangent. The question was "A lot of people are scared that the girl might have a boyfreind in another room" and the guy goes, "Oh well personally, I just think there are pleanty of fish in the sea. So if I see a guy I don't bother approaching..." and thne Dave has to re-explain it.

I think it's a good idea though, hearing something from the mouth of someone who's actually lived something is more valid than from an armchair analyst.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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