"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question About Dating.

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Do you ever tell girls you're dating other people? Like if she asks, "what are you doing tomorrow night?" Do you tell them "Oh, I'm going on a date with Michelle." Or just say something short like "Ehh just hangin out with friends."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just tell her you have other plans. Keep her guessing, it will only show that you have a busy life outside of her and raise her attraction level.
 

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I tell them I'm dating other people but I don't specifically tell them when I'm going on a date w/ someone else. Be vague it helps for ex..
"Tomorrow night I'm busy, let's get together again soon though ..." If they keep prying steer the conversation in a different direction.
 
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