"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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question about crushes

zack77766

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Girls talk right? If I walk up to a girl who has a crush on me and her gfs are aroubnd, will i get cbed? Will the girl (according to mystery) get an ego from the attention and just ignore me? Is it possible that even though her friends hear sweet things from me might get jealous and cb me? Is it ok to n close when her gfs are around?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zack77766 said:
Is it ok to n close when her gfs are around?
Ok man you obviously didn't thoroughly read Mystery's ebook if you don't know this question.

You need to move from meeting location to C1 (or C1 to C2... probably not possible at school), where is a quieter place away from the meeting point that's still in the same facility, and C2 being a different location.

When approaching a group of girls with your target, you need to OPEN THE SET and get them to accept you. DHV the rest of the group while negging your target. After you find that the group likes you (shouldn't take more than a few DHV's and anything to get them laughing a couple times) you can say, "hey I've been ignoring XX (if you already know her name), mind if I go talk to her for a minute? We'll be right over there (C1 location)"

Since they accept you of course they'll say, "sure, no problem," or "uh, only if it's okay with her."

Then you proceed to take your target to a seat away from her group of friends, where you can proceed to run comfort game on her and eventually #close.

Take it easy man, good luck
 

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redspicyflag said:
Just have fun

with all the girls

Supremo goes into the science of Mystery

but be a confident bastard

and isolate if ya need to
I only said that because he made a reference to Mystery, and I assumed he read the ebook. Now that I think about it I don't think so.

But agreed, be a ****y motha ****a and "make a hoe say no"
 
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