"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about Condoms/ Pull-Out Method

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Bud_Fox

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What are the odds of getting a girl pregant if I wear a condom and use the Pull-Out Method?

Also what are the odds of getting a STD?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mothballs

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Lower than the claimed effectiveness for condoms... Keep in mind when they say a condom is 98% effective they take data from a couple having sex the average number of times for a whole year... 98% of those couples do not get pregnant. So for each single encounter condoms are near 100% effective as it is. Wearing a condom will prevent the serious STD's, but as always contact transmitted diseases like warts and herpes will still be a threat if they're active at the time.
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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Unless you're producing a quart of semen every time, condoms are designed so you don't have to pull out at all (assuming it hasn't broken).
 
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