"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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question about c+f, teasing etc

J S Az

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if you C+f a girl and tease her and stuff, and she says that you are so mean, is that good?
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yunghova35

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yeah...
 

C&F Trickster

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Here's something i do sometimes:

Let's say I'm really busting on this girl hard and i'm getting to the edge where i can ALMOST sense she's starting to get insecure,maybe if i go much further i might actually hurt her feelings....I'll occasionally make a joke about myself. So if I'm really messing with her and making fun and teasing about her or her personality...let's say The last thing i did was call her a weirdo. i might say....."But you know, I'm not all there either. i guess it takes one to know one".
So it might be like for every 6 jokes at her expense, i might joke about myself once. (That's to give you an idea...I'm not keeping count)
The whole point is to just have fun with it. I love to make women smile and laugh and have fun while i'm doing it.
 
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