"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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question about c+f, teasing etc

J S Az

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if you C+f a girl and tease her and stuff, and she says that you are so mean, is that good?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah...
 

C&F Trickster

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Here's something i do sometimes:

Let's say I'm really busting on this girl hard and i'm getting to the edge where i can ALMOST sense she's starting to get insecure,maybe if i go much further i might actually hurt her feelings....I'll occasionally make a joke about myself. So if I'm really messing with her and making fun and teasing about her or her personality...let's say The last thing i did was call her a weirdo. i might say....."But you know, I'm not all there either. i guess it takes one to know one".
So it might be like for every 6 jokes at her expense, i might joke about myself once. (That's to give you an idea...I'm not keeping count)
The whole point is to just have fun with it. I love to make women smile and laugh and have fun while i'm doing it.
 
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