"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about bring your girl around your male friends?

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Two Part Question?

1) Is it ok a long term relationship (4 years) to tell your girlfriend details about your close friend's relationships such as them cheating on their girlfriend
or some of the dirt they do. Small Talk type of stuff. Alot of time she will tell me abou ther girlfriend's problems & I do the same.

2)I have a friend who is several years older than me. He always been like a big brother to me. However, in the past when I've taken females around him, he always is the dominate one in the convo & he plays as if he is the man. So, now I'm I've been with a girl who I've been with for 4 years & he really only seen her one time because I'll make up excuses not to do the double date thing. When I was young I didn't mind but now I'm older I don't see him as my big brother as much so I have a little complex about it. Now, I'm thinking it's going to look a sort of crazy if he is the best man at my wedding & he barely knows the girl what do you all think? All my other friends I don't care if she is around them except him.....So what are your throughts on bring your girlfriend around male friends.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MacDiddy

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keep it limited, its not usually a good thing, coz even I have a tendancy to be dominate, fun and flirtatious, as if I'm gonna sarge these chicks..

I make a habit of dissing these guys and revealling dirty secrets about them with the chick I have before I intro her to those guys. That way, they get to be disturbed about these guys and in will always have their guard up when in there presence... And the funny thing is, is that the stuff I say is all true anyway...
 

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Why would you bring a girl that your dating to around someone that is more dominant than you. When I use dominant I mean more skills of a Dj etc.

If it is your friend then he would hopefully knows that your dating her and would not interfear, If she likes him or not. If she ends up to like your friend then your friend would be your friend and not interfear.

PLus you have to bring your game up and so you would limit her to like someone else, like your friend. Plus if she shows interest in your friend or any other guys, she is probably testing you. So past her tests.
 

phatboi408

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Why would you bring a girl that your dating to around someone that is more dominant than you. When I use dominant I mean more skills of a Dj etc.

If it is your friend then he would hopefully knows that your dating her and would not interfear, If she likes him or not. If she ends up to like your friend then your friend would be your friend and not interfear.

PLus you have to bring your game up and so you would limit her to like someone else, like your friend. Plus if she shows interest in your friend or any other guys, she is probably testing you. So past her tests.
 

Krassus

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I think i should just copy "grow some balls" to my clipboard and reply to every post on this board with just that. Dude, he's your FRIEND! What's wrong with you? Talk to him! And if you think that he's so much better than you, why don't you get your life together and become a great guy YOURSELF? And if you're worried about your woman leaving you for him, why worry? Wouldn't he be doing you a huge favor by preventing you from marrying the WRONG woman? Would you REALLY rather find out in 10 years?
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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