"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about "being sexual"

Das

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I've been trying to work out some issues and I've read on the site about being sexual. WHat does that mean exactly? Like lets say I just approched and met a girl, what should I do to be seen as a sexual being?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BlackMos17

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Gunwitch's post (Gunwitch method) sums it up pretty well

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=46286

The first understanding you must have, is what I mean when I refer to a "state". I simply mean your state of mind, the feelings in your body, and the overall YOU at any given moment. Can you recall a time, the last time that you were totally HOT and HORNY for a woman - to the point you had an erection, felt slight pain in your stomach, how you looked at her, and how you were thinking at the moment. What did that feel like? You were in "sexual state" at that point.
 

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Das said:
I've been trying to work out some issues and I've read on the site about being sexual. WHat does that mean exactly? Like lets say I just approched and met a girl, what should I do to be seen as a sexual being?
Walk up to her with you willy hanging out your open zipper; they love it.

I know this is going to sound uber-lame, but you should be able to get the las started by making good eye-contact with her. Let your eyes linger a little long (just don't stare or she'll think you're a freak).

Get close to her without making her uncomfortable. Check out some resources on body-language to get the idea of when she is open and receptive to you getting closer (hair touching, smiling, open stance, wearing a sign that says "Do me now").

Experiment a little and do a lot of people-watching. Observe how people behave. You can always tell, even from a distance, when a couple is 'newly' in love. It's REALLY easy to tell when they've been married too long too...

Good luck lover-boy.
 
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