question about "being friends"

[alsilver007]

I just took this girl out for dinner and a movie, and at the end of the night she said " I see you as just a friend"

Now is that the end all be all? Or can I get back in there for round 2?

What can I say? What do I Do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Pac_Man]

Yup. SOrry to say man. I think that's it. The girl pretty much up made up her mind about you. I would suggest just moving on to the next.

 

[JJMcLure]

You got LJBF. Game over.

Hope the evening didn't cost you too much! In future dinner and movie should be avoided as a date. Take the chick on an action date (pool, bowling, mini-golf etc), search this board with keywords "action date" or "date ideas" for suggestions.

At least she was up front with you, some chicks would string you along just to get free nights out when they're bored.

Out of interest what prompted her to say that?

 

[Dirtheart]

Sorry man. Those words are not something you want to hear from a woman. The best thing you can do now is back off completely and act like you barely know her.

As JJMclure said, try not to do something expensive for a date. You were lucky in a a way, because she was honest with you early on, whereas many women sense generosity and will take advantage of it for as long as they can.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by alsilver007
I just took this girl out for dinner and a movie, and at the end of the night she said " I see you as just a friend"

Now is that the end all be all? Or can I get back in there for round 2?

What can I say? What do I Do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

With the next girl, act less like a friend and more like a lover. Don't be afraid to express your male sexuality. (Just don't verbalize it or lay it on too blatantly )

This one? In all likelihood, you're done. Don't waste any more time/money, that's for sure.

 

[ScrewIt]

nt

 

[ScrewIt]

squirrel is right, u gotta show your male sexuality.

did you kino her throughout the nite? make some witty comments and tease her ? put your arm around her through the movie? give her a kiss at the end of the nite.

for the 1st date it's not recommended to watch a movie..

maybe throughout the nite, she saw you were too afraid of being a guy (showing that you wanted her sexually), that she just put u into the LJBF

 

[MacDiddy]

Did you talk during the movie? To sit thru the whole movie with minimal chatter is awkward to the chick on a date.

 

[Dan Hunter]

it's not all over cuz i've been friends with females for a long time and ended up in a pretty long relationship with them after...

just be yourself