"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cmr662

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can someone please clarify something for me. i keep reading on here about how guys dont get the girl, alot of times people say its because they didnt get aggressive enough, or "make their move" etc. but on the other hand i always see people write "let her initiate the relationship talk" etc. these seem to somewhat contradict each other. opinions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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being aggressive for me is when the time is right, i take the girl into my arms and kiss her..i just do it, i don't sit around waiting to be kissed by her.


Originally posted by cmr662
but on the other hand i always see people write "let her initiate the relationship talk" etc. these seem to somewhat contradict each other. opinions?
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relationship talk... personally for me, i don't wait till i'm officially "in a relationship" with the girl before i make any move on her, its basic, i can kiss her/have sex with her without being in a relationship with her. afiter this point though, i don't say anything about being with her long term, even after we've had sex a few times. i wait for her to bring it up. this shows me that she's serious about it... if you have read one of pook's AD posts, he says something about this as the girl "proposing to you when she brings this up" when she does, you know she's for real and wants to be with you.

then you can decide if you want her or not.

that's my personal two cents. hope it has helped you though things may be very different for each individual.

all the best
 
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believe it or not, being in a relationship is a passive stance. dating/asking for dates is aggressive. that is why girls are supposed to be the ones to talk about "the relationship" while guys are supposed to be the ones "asking for a date."

on aggressive/passive. Sitting at home is passive. Going out is aggressive. Calling the cops cause someone smaller/skinnier than you is banging on your door armed with only his fists is passive. Busting out the door and smashing the smaller's face with your fists is aggressive.

Girls = passive
Guys = aggressive

it's actually more complicated than that, but i won't get into it, just simplifying so you can get it.

DO YOU GET IT NOW?
 
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