"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question about anti-depressants and weight gain.

Aspiring_DJ

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I am currently on an SSRI anti depressent and one of the side effects is weight gain. So my question is, if i continue going to the gym, will this weight just turn into muscle? Or will it be a bad kind of weight gain?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KontrollerX

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Fat doesn't turn into muscle.

You could try doing cardio to burn it off but really you should see if your doctor can put you on an alternative medication without that side effect.
 

Aspiring_DJ

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KontrollerX said:
Fat doesn't turn into muscle.

You could try doing cardio to burn it off but really you should see if your doctor can put you on an alternative medication without that side effect.
I forgot to add that I am 5-11 and about 135 pounds. So again, If i am trying to bulk up, gaining weight can't hurt right?
 

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when people on this forum say 'bulk' they mean muscle, not fat. muscle is heavier than fat. no seratonin inhibitor will make you gain muscle, only fat. fat is just stored energy in the form of blubber. it has nothing to do with muscle or bulking. it is simply an unwanted byproduct of bulking - the calorie surplus required to effectively build muscle on a strength training program will overflow into some fat which can be kept at bay with cardiovascular exercise.
 
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