"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Question about an ******* Friend

Potbelly

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So my friend is a huge azzhole. He calls everyone stupid, takes cheap shots at me sometimes, and I insult him back as well, but it doesn't feel good to say dumb sh1t to someone for no reason.

Anyways, he is not cool, but occasionally makes funny comments in class and everythign this guy says is pretty much outrageous and very uncalled for or un-PC (not humorous, just blatantly immature).

Should I drop this guy? I mean, only good thing he is for is as a study buddy, but seriously I am thinking about drop kicking this loser to the curb.

I don't want to tolerate any of this bullsh1t anymore and I was thinking, "I have enough stress in my life, some I can remove and others I just have to deal with. This is one I CAN remove. Why not?"

What do you guys think? Any experience with friends who are azzholes you wanted to drop or dropped?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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g g g unit

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Drop him, the sooner the better. Trust me you'll feel good about it afterwards
 

Potbelly

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thanks, gonna drop him
 
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