"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question about an ******* Friend

Potbelly

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So my friend is a huge azzhole. He calls everyone stupid, takes cheap shots at me sometimes, and I insult him back as well, but it doesn't feel good to say dumb sh1t to someone for no reason.

Anyways, he is not cool, but occasionally makes funny comments in class and everythign this guy says is pretty much outrageous and very uncalled for or un-PC (not humorous, just blatantly immature).

Should I drop this guy? I mean, only good thing he is for is as a study buddy, but seriously I am thinking about drop kicking this loser to the curb.

I don't want to tolerate any of this bullsh1t anymore and I was thinking, "I have enough stress in my life, some I can remove and others I just have to deal with. This is one I CAN remove. Why not?"

What do you guys think? Any experience with friends who are azzholes you wanted to drop or dropped?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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g g g unit

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Drop him, the sooner the better. Trust me you'll feel good about it afterwards
 

Potbelly

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thanks, gonna drop him
 
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