"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question about "action" as used by pook

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What examples of things you could do in a normal way and in a romantic way would the girl see as being action?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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clarify

I don't get your question.

As I uderstand it, the sort of "action" Pook writes about is the very way you conduct your life. Nothing is more potent than that. All the other tips and tricks are mere window dressing.
 
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Re: clarify

Originally posted by Bonhomme
I don't get your question.

As I uderstand it, the sort of "action" Pook writes about is the very way you conduct your life. Nothing is more potent than that. All the other tips and tricks are mere window dressing.
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I don't understand myself really either lol... but you know he talks about "action" and "action dates" such as bowling can't remember his other activitys ... I just meant what activitys u could do with a girl which was "action" (cause i can't come up with maybe ideas), and what things could you do in your life that would make girls think you were a "action" sort of guy.,hence they'd be more attracted too u.
 
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Bowling
Ice skating
Mini golf
Indoor rock-climbing
Dry slope ski-ing
Horse riding
Roller blading
Swimming

etc.

These kind of dates aren't 'romantic' as such, but she can have a great time, and she'll associate enjoying herself with YOU. Then just use the rest of your great DJ repertoir to bump up the romance!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't know what pook is..Why would anyone name himself after a women's crocth?


Regardless,I'm taking that info as bull****.You don't have to win some drag-race like some fukking movie to get laid.

Be direct,those guys that are constantly doing **** to impress women end up being thugs or pretty boys."Action" is just an excuse for inaction.
 
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