"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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question about a situation with girlfriend

BAM001

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gonna try and keep it short.

back when i first met my current girlfriend she had a huge crush on some dude. but he didnt want anymore than random hookups, she wanted a relationship. they would talk every once in awhile, she always ended up getting pissed at him.

few months later, she and i are a couple. just got off the phone with her tonight. before she goes she says "i think im gonna call clyde" clyde is the old crush. im like "ok cool, have a good night."

i didnt think anything of it because she has told me how much of an azzhole he is and stuff. but now im curious if i should say something, or just leave it alone?

i was thinking of just asking if she still had feelings for him. and tell her its ok if she does, id rather not waste both of our time if shes still wanting another dude.

shes really cool, and cute. but theres no point in wasting both of our time if she wants someone else lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Scars

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Whatever you do, do NOT bring it up. Your girlfriend is either losing attraction for you, or is gaining more interest in this Clyde guy. If you get "jealous" (which is how she will see it if you even bring it up) you will be single in a matter of no time.

To be honest it kind of seems like her mind is already set. That's extremely disrespectful, especially to tell YOU. She is either trying to get a reaction out of you, or she is just retarded. Chances are, it's the later. Now would be the time to cut the knot. Let her ride his d!ck a few times before she comes running back to you, because she's going to do it anyway. Better she be single doing it than you looking like a tool right? Next this b!tch. Let her remind herself why she was dating you in the first place.
 

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Any time a girl of mine says she wants another guy, I tell her they make a cute couple...and then I go fvck another girl. I have never had a girl dump me for another guy and not be bored of him within about two weeks. I just take it as a given that any guy will become an AFC within that time, regardless of how great he seems at first. I assume the girl is coming back to me, they always do. With that mindset, it's not a breakup - it's a New Pvssy Vacation!
 
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