"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question about a girl.

Budda57

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I fairly new to all of this....so bear with me. Last night I went on a great date with a girl. We went ice skating and had the whole rink to ourselves. I have two question for you:

1. Before the date and during I wasn't even nervous. How could that be? I have always been nervous on a date in the past. Could this be a good sign?

2. I'm on myspace and of course she's on my friends list. When should I call her back or communicate with her. For sure, she can see me "online" and I feel like a **** for not talking to her. (she hasn't sent me a message yet)

Any suggestions would be great. Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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